ETIQUETTE & COMMON QUESTIONS

AVAILABILITY

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I’m an early bird with a healthy lifestyle and flexible schedule. My availability is generally 10am to 8pm, but bookings need to be made in advance! I appreciate planning ahead and appreciate at least 24 hours’ notice for most dates. Occasionally I can accommodate same-day requests, especially for established friends. 

 

Dates of 3 hours or longer require public time. I’m happy to suggest restaurant, entertainment, or activity options! After the end of 2025, I will be winding down and shifting my focus to pursuing my next ventures so availability may be limited.

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BOUNDARIES

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In general, I’m pretty open minded! I’m very communicative- I'll let you know what works for me, and I’m happy to hear about your preferences and desires as well! If you are unsure about anything, just ask!

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I'm experienced, but I generally don't do kink sessions on a first meet unless you are very experienced and all proper safety protocols are met.

 

* Please do not be overly explicit in your initial communications. We can discuss specific requests later with a phone call or video-chat, after you’ve passed screening!

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** Also- Always, be a respectful gentleman! I will be caring and respectful toward you, and I expect the same in return. If at any point in our communications or rendezvous I feel disrespected or uncomfortable, I reserve the right to terminate our relationship immediately without explanation or recompense. I’m a wonderful caring lady—treat me as such!

 

WARDROBE REQUESTS

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I’m happy to accommodate wardrobe requests, within reason, ideally with a little notice. I'm happy to wear or bring outfits that you’d enjoy seeing me wear. And if you appreciate discretion, just let me know and I can dress casually but beautifully as well!

 

SCREENING

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Screening is mandatory. No exceptions. If you don't understand screening or why it is important, please click here and read this. To meet, I will need to know who you are.

This is for my safety ONLY. I value my privacy, and I definitely respect yours as well!

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You must include:

1. A photo of your ID (you can obscure all information except name, state)

or your LinkedIn or professional profile.

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2. A selfie (can be casual, don't overthink this!)

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Also appreciated:

 References: Two references from reputable providers whom you have seen within the last year. Please provide their name, contact information, and website/ads.

 

PRIVACY

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All identifying information you share with me will be used for screening purposes only and kept strictly confidential. I value my own privacy; I expect and understand that you do as well. Due to my preference for privacy (yours and mine!), I do not allow online posted reviews.

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DEPOSITS

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For all new client bookings a deposit of 20% is required. This may be sent via Venmo, Cashapp, or Amazon (USA accounts only) or Whole Foods e-gift card. For FMTY bookings a 20% deposit is required to secure the date, plus travel costs (airfare).

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LOCATION

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I’m based in the Chicago area. I’m happy to meet at an upscale hotel of your choice, a nice bar, restaurant, or any other appropriate setting. I can meet downtown, anywhere on the North Side, or on the North Shore. Incall is possible, with a little notice. Incall is typically in Glenview, Evanston, or downtown.

CANCELLATIONS

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I understand that life happens and things don't always go as planned. If you must cancel a scheduled date, please try to give me as much notice as possible. I will always do my best to reschedule with you. However, if we are unable to reschedule, your deposit will be forfeited.​

 

If I ever must cancel unexpectedly, I will reschedule at your earliest convenience, and more than make it up to you at our next meeting!

 

DONATION OPTIONS

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Cash is queen! Always the most appreciated form of donation. I also accept CashApp and Venmo. Payment should be made in advance or given discretely at the VERY BEGINNING of our rendezvous. If we’re meeting in private, please leave the donation on the table in an envelope at the start of our date. If we’re in public, please feel free to bring your donation in a gift bag, a greeting card, or a great book! Donations are to honor my time only, and nothing else. How we spend that time together is up to us!​

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MAY I GIVE YOU A GIFT?

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Nothing says romance like a gentleman offering a dozen roses, a fabled blue box from Tiffany’s,

or a bottle of French or Italian red wine...

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Gifts are never expected but certainly always appreciated! I am always delighted by a new dress and the chance to show it off! Have a lingerie color or set in mind? I’d be happy to model it for you! A new piece of jewelry makes my heart race with anticipation

at the thought of wearing it just for you…

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I feel adored and decorated when I put on a set of elegant earrings, lovely new dress,

beautiful bracelet, or stunning necklace that you’ve picked out just for me!

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I like my wine red.

I enjoy my chocolate dark.

And my dresses, skin tight!

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Check out my Wishlist here to choose a special gift for me.

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If you’d like to give a gift card, I love shopping at Whole Foods. I also enjoy Lululemon (for my yoga classes!), Aritzia, Corepower Yoga, and Amazon.

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Sizing Guide for Clothes & Lingerie

Dress Size: 2-4

Clothing: Small

Bra: 32DD

Panties: Medium/Large (enjoy those womanly hips!)

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STILL NERVOUS?

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Don’t be, silly! I’m the kindest, sweetest, most patient gal you’ll ever meet.

Fill out the contact form on my booking page and let’s set up a date!